Okay. I am about to get real personal. Are you ready? Sex. Let's get straight to it. The first time I had sex I was 23. Yes, 23. I wanted to wait to have sex with an amazing person and I did. I am glad I didn't have it when I was 16. I am by no means judging anyone that did, I personally just feel like I was not emotionally or physically ready. Now that I've had sex, I want it all the time. I am not joking. I think about it on a daily basis. I think about when I want it and where I want to have it. I have a lot of different fantasies of me and my boyfriend doing it in different places. (I told you it was going to get really personal). I didn't even realize I was like this until I was no longer a virgin.
I love everything about sex. I love the closeness. I love the rush. I love the feeling. Everything is SO great. I literally will cancel all my plans, everything, just to have sex. I thought boys were the one's that thought about sex all the time but as I get older and talk about it with other girls, girls want it just as badly Yes, that's right, I would have sex at least 4-5 times a week if I could.
It's hard when you're 24 and don't have your own place to have sex whenever you want. I have to wait until my parents aren't home or get creative. Lately, my boyfriend as been so busy with school and work that we haven't had sex as much as I'd like. For the first week or so it was fine, but after that I started to go crazy. I didn't realize just how much I needed it until I wasn't getting it. I went 22 years without it, but now one week seems like an eternity.
For a few weeks I didn't say anything to my boyfriend about wanting sex. I sat back and hoped we would get alone time. I didn't want to seem too desperate. I know it sounds dumb. Girls are "supposed" to play hard to get and not be easy, or so that's what everyone says. You know what? I think they're wrong. If you want something then go get it. Don't just sit around and hope it happens. No tell you boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, whoever that you need it. Sex is something that is so beautiful and makes every part of you feel amazing. Why shouldn't we have it as much as possible!? Also, why shouldn't we talk about it more?
When you have sex you forget about everything. It's just you and that person sharing an amazing experience. You live in the moment when you're having sex. You aren't thinking about the past or the future, you're thinking about right now and just enjoying every touch. It's incredible.
Sex is a necessity. It is also such an important part of a relationship. If something isn't working for you, you need to tell you partner. Communicating before, during and after sex is so important. Don't feel ashamed about anything. Sex is too good to have it be ruined by fear. If you want it, then do it.
-N
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